Salon Speak: Small Talk, Deep Talk, or No Talk, Which is Best?

Summary: Every time a client sits in your chair and faces the mirror with you standing behind, a choice occurs. Chat, joke, get personal, or “let it be.” How do you know what the best idea is?

First, think about what you, the stylist, prefer when it’s your turn to sit in the chair rather than behind it. How would you enjoy your time for the perfect cut and color? Then think about your clients.

Often, there is a yearning for quiet, but not always.

The norm for communication in salons until recently has often been similar to the powerful movie Steel Magnolias with Shirley McClain, Sally Field, Dolly Parton, and Julia Roberts. (What a cast!).

If you have never seen it, get ready to watch and have some tissues nearby.

Here, a group of friends talk and help each other through trying times,

Can that caring way still work today in 2023?

Of course, it can.

However, the world is conistentious and polarized. Even the slightest disagreement with another point of view can lead to either shutting down a conversation or setting upset in motion.

Is one way better than the other for both you and your client?

Does your salon have a “quiet chair” philosophy?

If not, read on and consider the benefits.

With yoga and meditation gaining more and more focus and mental health now a top priority, people are rethinking what they need to be calmer and more effective in their daily lives.

Of course, it is a basic fact that the beauty and salon industries build on relationships. You can’t order a cut and color on Amazon.

Do your clients sit down with their phones ready for scrolling? Or maybe an older client even brings a book or magazine to read. I know we all remember books!!

You can often tell how much the length requires verbal communication of the responses to your questions about what will make them feel glamorous.

Some want to talk, and others want to relax.

The best way to help with the decision is to offer quiet chairs. Let the client decide without feeling embarrassed by saying they want you to make your magic, and let them sit silently.

Have them check off their preference before they even sit down.

Ah, no need to explain. You both know how to proceed and check a mark on a paper.

What do you think? Would this be beneficial or detrimental to your salon?

I compiled a list to help you understand the benefits of silence in the beauty industry.

Just one more interesting fact. Women use more words per day than men do. Did you ever wonder how the Chatty Cathy doll evolved? Yup, from women who must get their quota of words out for the day. And some advice, If you want quiet and have a male stylist, book for later in the afternoon. They have fewer words then.

And let me end with something I learned from my granddaughter when she was ten. “Grandmom,” she chastised me. “You are talking too much, and I want to hear the snow falling and the wind whistling.”

We both sat in silence and listened to the sounds of silence.

Here’s to your success,

Sylvia Lafair

PS. My book “Invisible Stress (It’s NOT What YOU Think)” is an excellent guide for handling stress at work and home. You can go to www.ceoptions.com and get a free copy of the introduction. Enjoy.

Originally published at https://ceoptions.com on February 27, 2023.